Asking a random girl for her number. And if she says no, shrug it off and say it's not a problem — it was great to meet her anyway. Just be confident in yourself and believe your and interesting person. Asker's rating. Skip to main content. This is really what it comes down to. Don't be afraid to just start a conversation with a girl if she's by herself or with other people even a male friend. Another very flirtatious option is to bring their hand to your lips and kiss it just above or below the knuckles. I always think that I'd come across as a psycho for asking a random girl for her number. If she ignores you, then that's bad. But now I can do it over and over again. They always kiss right at the perfect moment, when things are at an emotional high point and it just feels right. Learn more Give her options other than a number.