Cant get over a girl. But it's not the basis for a healthy relationship. This is why you struggle to cut all contact with her. I was very upset, but it was always his way or the highway. Things such as generosity, selflessness and gratitude just aren't there. One of the reasons you feel pain at the end of the relationship is because you have invested a lot of yourself in the partnership. If so, then just try to get to know her incompatibilities on a non romantic front might develop anyway. It might even be quite a big flame. Because you need to be able to man up, move on and have happy, fulfilling relationships. She is a human being with quirks and flaws, with whom a relationship is not possible. Everything was going extremley well, Id always go over to his place on the weekends and hangout with him. The brutal truth is that you aren't going to get back with her and live happily ever after. We talked for a month and decided to meet and hang out again we hit it off we had an awesome time. Men and women can't be friends if they have been together.