Creative ideas for your girlfriend. Take a glitter paper and make a big square and small square into it. Sounds like a good approach to surprise your girlfriend. Girls love creative men and the time you have spent on making this one adds value to it. A person has to be special for this gift of love in a jar. Strip off the usual candy wrap and customize it by making your special wrap. You could place it on some commonplace. This way you could make your own. Here, a candle and self-defense item on your bedside table always.