Ex husband keeps texting me. Can a 45 year old man and a 28 year old woman work? He is 1 year 6 months and all I think about is him. AM, lunch, after work, bedtime. I left my husband because his family were using be and he began to do the same. Note that if your former partner has a Residence Order, she can take your children abroad for up to a month without your consent. Trash the toothbrush, razor, hair goop and all the stuff that they can easily replace with a trip to Wal-Mart or the drugstore. How do stop her from emigrating with my child? Christie, John Herbert "Herbie". Then smile seeing that shes happier without me atleast I think so. He asked about an open relationship so he could do just as he said, do what he wanted.