From you to me dad. I lied when they asked if I was okay. Thanks so much for your feedback Ellie, and for sharing. By Quentin Fottrell. If spammers comment on your content, only you can see and manage such comments Delete all. All of the pain that you have been through has shaped you for this moment in time. And I made some mistakes at age 20 — but nothing anywhere near the train wreck she might be headed towards. Are you an existing user? Sincere thanks, sparky.