How safe is sex with condomes. My whole body was covered with them. So, I let these women teach me. I am 48 years old, last year I met a guy we were friends and did enjoyable activities, he is also my age. I went from a high paying job and no debt to leaving my job with a house I now must foreclose on that I bought for us and her kids and no friends or potential future. The Depro-Vera shot was the worse, lost all sex drive and was moody for a year. Fucked up!! Why make excuses for him? From little things to big things, you feel like your partner never listens. Sorry to hear a women abused you!!!!