How to split up with your girlfriend. More top stories. Every time I get a down feeling like once every or every two weeksI am going through your blog posts. If you and your significant other live together, breaking up can be particularly problematic and stressful. I rushed over anyway and was at her house by 9: You singled out above on one of the comments that one should not attempt a reconciliation with a BPD if they cheated, even if they know the new information on BPD. The environment that your ex created in your relationship probably caused you to walk through a psychological minefield on a daily basis. Surely, I was kind and supportive but put a strong boundary on bullshit behaviour. What I find most disturbing is how irrational the patterns and the push pull dynamic are, and my attraction to same. Well it was the opposite, she pulled me all the way and finally pushed me away just in an instant. Joanna it is like you have been following me around for a long time taking notes. Joanna Nicola December 8, at Nothing is sexy girl h romantic than a man who loses sight of what's really important in life in favor of his money or possessions. Rose, you likely would understand if you ever lived through a relationship with BPD.