How to stay safe in chat rooms. To obtain a Room 4 password you must be a member for at least 30 days. To obtain a Room 4 password you must be a member for at least 30 days. Please ask in the main room before private messaging. To obtain a Room 5 password you must be a member of the Adult Discussions forums folder. By entering this room, I state that I am 18 or older. I understand that this room is not for cybersex purposes. If appropriate, you will automatically be granted access to the Tough Topics folder in forums. December 1, Please check your junkmail folder if you have not received a validation email. General room for chatting and support. That's it! Problems logging back into chat?