Worry not about whether he is punished for earthly sins against you… that is not Biblical at all.
God has a plan for your life, not many plans if you get what i mean, you cant marry just anyone to walk in that plan, the choice of who you will marry will definitely have to be in line as much as possible.
So he picks what the family will have for dinner, for instance, or which bedsheet goes on the bed, and so on.
She worries about a school friend and gets emotional.
He helped me through my divorce I was married for 23 yrs.