Limerance definition. In my experience, I was never able to control my sociopath, but god knows he controlled and manipulated him plenty. I am going to put my husband in a christian clinic, he wants to go too, and let go and let god. I've never laughed so much in my life! I was not very excited when the class started, but I have to admit it has been a rewarding experience after all. I hear you, my fiancee never touches me and scoffs at my advances…and wonders why I look miserable all the time. For you women out theremake your dam minds up about what you want, dont make excuses, make yor sig other feel loved as you would want. Except for people who think men use women as sex toys which says far more about them than men. Still to this day maintains they never did any wrong. That made me feel like a rapist. I just got tired of dealing with the repercussions of my actions and stopped some of the behaviors. Somerset Maugham. The loss is his, and the life is mine.