Long distance relationship sexually frustrated. But I also understand that I should voice what I want and need at times too…. I feel its only me who want this to work. You MUST think about yourself and what you want if you are to survive this, and help him and even just be able to have a relationship with him. He was the one isolating himself from friends and family. Your sense of trust and instinct have been shot to hell. I posted in May about my boyfriend whom I told I loved. We had lost a lot of love in the relationship due to the constant bickering and arguing. We are attracted to a certain type or look, and we don't see that right in front of us are loving people that you need to spend more time with, and be open to feeling things adult sex c them. I really love him but I feel he took the break to breakup with me.