Make your wife happy in bed. I never went to sleep for over 48 hours. She would say curvy cowgirls you want to sleep with other women therefore pushing her to other men and She would feel that you don't love her. The best thing is his nasty, dirty talk and the way he forcefully makes love to me. I am always craving a cock inside me. Rub the tip of a well lubricated finger against the tip of his anus. Good luck. In most cases, the threat of public humiliation is more effective than the actual deed. Use dried herbs, not fresh. It might help clarify what needs to be done to develop a general theory of female domination.