My husband has a girlfriend and wants a divorce. Now way you will be able to just let go. When I get mad, I really get mad. I have spent all my years quenching my desires due to my family conditions, I am good at it. Some men reach adulthood but they are not yet finished with their mothers. She proceeded to ensure that he stuck around by boob grant he built a house on the property she owed, which was right next door to the other cottage she owned. I think honestly part of the problem is the fact that she cannot live without him because he fills a void for her. And he is winning. Therefore, only in the most rarest of circumstances will visitation be terminated completely. This type of scenario is especially enhanced if the wife moves in with another boyfriend, or if the husband shacks up with a new girlfriend. Run far and long.