Nagging girlfriend. Sharing Porn I need to get out quick — he started out being Mr. You sound so grounded in how you are handling this very difficult situation. He only wanted what I had! Reading these stories and how closely similar they are to mine, I just question how in the world does this begin, where do these jerks come from? He is not paying for his two kids and he doesnt spend time with them like picking one of them up once every 2 months. Seemed a bit proud of it too 2. I am a crying fool and I am having thoughts that if he would only get help, we could repair the damage and spend another 31 years together. He always tells me that actions speak loude than words. But he abused me badly mostly emotional but also physical as well. He does have a part time job but that morning goes toward cigerettes and stuff for him.