Sex gentle partner. Breathing, the mind and sexual response are all interdependent. The receptive partner may also infect the insertive partner. You can see quite a bit of variation from man to man. May 28, at 9: The 'helicopter' technique is used which entails passing your hands on the skin then progressively decreasing pressure until they are passing just above the skin. I feel so guilty because he is such a great boyfriend and we do get along so well. Visualise warm energy flowing up your spine and down your front, completing this circuit 36 times. A further difficulty arises as condoms are desensitising for men generally. April 5, at 4: The Tao of Love and Sex.