Signs of sexual abuse in boy. See more under the Albany Diocese listing. Or this article from the Seattle Times: It is something I am working on over-coming, its not easy but my boyfriend has emotional security which makes finding my own easier at times. After the out-of-court settlement, Monsignor Sewall underwent treatment but remained a pastor and an administrator until he retired, then continued to teach some. I am on the verge of not wanting to spend ANY holiday with him anymore just to protect myself from him. Before he issues his final report, Troyer must submit a draft of the document to the church, whose officials will have the opportunity to suggest changes. Cardinal Law also repeatedly reassigned the Rev. Mother-Son sexual abuse This is the follow up to the Mother-Daughter sexual abuse post. At least that is how he thought for many years and he admits to still thinking that sometimes. Over time, I realized being with him just left me drained. Behaviour that is abusive will have elements of domination, coercion or bribery, and certainly secrecy.