Signs to show that a girl loves you. Possible Signs of Asexuality — Part 2: I have suspect she must have worked in the sex industry at some stage prior to meeting me to think what she did was ok. My ex knows If i was interested in the other giy I would have uploaded pics with him because I put my relationships on social media. I love what you wrote, because it completely describes me! Mary Luc November 8, Even cleaning down there in the shower is something done with minimal contact and certainly no lingering. So even if I dont want to have sex with them, and I still get turned on, am I asexual or am I just a weird normal straight chick? This is the most important sign of all. But feel so guilty. I would sure like to know if this sounds familiar to anyone else out there.