Standing sex both partners similar height. It is symbolic of a serious commitment of ownership and bears the same importance as a wedding ring. My husband says it is OK with him, but it is bothering me. If so, are there any good ones, I'm just getting bored with masturbating in the same old way. I think your case illustrates how important early sexual arousal can be in shaping what arouses you later. For some reason, guys who practice "normal" masturbation have the fewest problems when making the transition to sex with a partner. I kept staring. At any rate, someone may want a friendly wall to hold both of them up during this act. I have never had a girlfriend as I am quite shy. Some men regard the pictures they use as "sex toys. Would I be right in thinking that I'm gay? Playboy even publishes a magazine called "Barefoot Beauties.