Sweet words to a woman. Debra Kapellakis September 5, at Anonymous August 8, at 6: Alexis B August 4, at Fardrai zich deyn kop!: Anonymous August 20, at 2: We count. As I stand in my kitchen crying and holding pajama bottoms that need to be put in the hamper it makes me feel better knowing that I am not the only mother feeling this way!!! Thank you so much for writing this! Always demonstrate the right use of power. Either way, like the blogger said, you are good enough but your happiness and sanity is important too.