Tantric sex for women. To identify the PC, simply stop the flow of urine the next time you go to the toilet by flexing the muscles of your lower pelvis. What's more, you can have a massive chain reaction of them for a half-hour, hour, or more. I want a spiritual intimate relationship. Then, move on to the scrotum, gently pulling and kneading his testicles. But then the listener has become feminine. This practice could provide your first full-body orgasmic experience! A really well written piece Jennifer, thank you. At the very base of the sacrum just above the anus. But, whether we understand it or not - Tantra is continually performing itself, Tantra is, what is happening.