What to talk about on phone with boyfriend. I flipped out and kicked him out. If he meets you one-on-one then avoid getting into deep conversation with him. There is no reason to start harassing him or the girl he is dating. I am recommending that you drop certain hints in your communication with your ex boyfriend that you are out meeting new people. Ordering him or her around will be extra hot. However, as time goes by. Part of me wishes I didnt block him, but knowing him in the past he would always block me. Its good to write it all out….