Why do men want oral sex. I'm a happily married woman to the man of my dreams. Then you have to keep it a secret from your wife. What Does It Feel Like? Deny that you want her? And in this case, you are likely to succumb to the adage that, "You regret more what you didn't do than what you did. For example, one friend told me that her husband will do the dishes for a week just to get a blow job. Some women like to have a finger gently inserted into their anus. We will therefore avoid all morally questionable books, magazines, and newspapers. A good technique when you are able to be in front of a woman.