Why does alcohol prolong sex. If the man believes there's trouble, he needs to talk with his partner about it and learn what she wants. Leave your comment. If you've got into the habit of drinking wine for dinner, try switching to a non-alcoholic drink choice instead or try dinner-only drinking. So I need something that does not smell too much! And so he continues to worry and to flounder, and he's come to see this problem as a measure of his manhood: Expand Collapse. I know. When there isn't enough serotonin in a small area of your brain stem known as the get ready now nucleus paragigantocellularis, your time to ejaculation speeds up, says Dr. And i have also found that being drunk or tipsy or stoned lets me last hours on end.